The Caregiver’s Tales
Tiny essays on life, nature, grief and other things that catch my fancy in the Texas Hill Country. Here’s how it all got started.
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Water, Water
A great, dark Gulf Coast thunderstorm rolled through yesterday afternoon. Lightning flashed. Thunder rolled. There were booms and cracks all around. The rain fell in torrents. It felt as though the entire Gulf of Mexico had come to the land.
The Plan
Imagine my surprise. I walked out to feed the cats this morning and the driveway was wet. What? Rain? Wow. That’s nice. I’ll have to wait until the sun comes up to see how much.
![Mountain Air](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f8e6edff5f6915501989f00/e7e9b098-c452-48d6-988f-a00a9ce530d9/230909+Mountain+Air.jpeg)
Mountain Air
Went to the top of a mountain yesterday. Actually, it was only close to the top. And we rode. On a ski lift. It was fun. It took about eight minutes to reach our destination.
![An Encounter](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f8e6edff5f6915501989f00/ad4d5ce0-5dac-4117-8f67-ae0743fee820/230908+An+Encounter.jpeg)
An Encounter
Started the day yesterday with a short walk along the South Rim of the Rio Grande Gorge just outside Taos. Standing at the starting line, it looked mostly flat. We could see a long way into the distance.
![Sunny Days](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f8e6edff5f6915501989f00/023cd639-f077-4639-af93-59217cc54d46/230822+Sunny+Days.jpeg)
Sunny Days
It’s hot. Even in the shade. The wind blows. It’s hot. The ground is hot. The plants are hot. The animals are hot. My long-haired cats look like refugees from boot camp. There’s no escape.
![Time Keeping](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f8e6edff5f6915501989f00/43e69e14-8048-47f9-a2c0-7d99417d37ad/230808+Time+Keeping.jpeg)
Time Keeping
I’m in Marathon. In the silence of the morning, I can hear the train whistling its way through town. A long call in the dark night warning the unexpecting.
![Grape Picking](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f8e6edff5f6915501989f00/500f0fa9-d812-4ff4-b19c-3f17acf56061/230724+Grape+Picking.jpeg)
Grape Picking
I’m a grape picker. It was interesting work. Not sure I could do it eight hours a day, but two or three in the morning seem fine, especially when you’re gifted with a bottle of wine.
![Show Time](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f8e6edff5f6915501989f00/32c03fc7-0edd-403e-a9bf-1f12f36ed01a/230721+Show+Time.jpeg)
Show Time
In the early 70s, as an intern for the Houston Chronicle, I was sent to interview Gunther Gebel Williams a lion tamer for Ringling Brother’s Barnum and Bailey Circus. He lived in a nicely appointed rail car.
![Do This](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f8e6edff5f6915501989f00/9812c01e-41ae-4d2b-acfa-7cd8f7785574/230710+Do+This.jpeg)
Do This
I have a task. My new bird feeder uses high quality food. Peanuts and sunflower seeds. All ground into little pieces. The birds love it. But so too do other varmints.
![Thought Control](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f8e6edff5f6915501989f00/be7da20a-4b2a-472c-a788-cea3544cb012/230707+Thought+Control.jpeg)
Thought Control
I guess it’s true. Into each life a little rain must fall. Some fell into mine yesterday. Not the metaphorical sad kind. But the literal, real kind.
![Content](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f8e6edff5f6915501989f00/58ead5ae-38ab-46d9-8b2f-56980cc06cf2/230630+Content.jpeg)
Content
Yesterday evening in my pool, as I floated on my back, I was looking up into the clear blue Texas sky. The only things to see were a waxing gibbous moon, and a solitary buzzard floating on a thermal, wings extended.
![Stormy](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f8e6edff5f6915501989f00/20f75362-18f5-4d3a-9251-b9469ab602ae/230622+Stormy.jpeg)
Stormy
Bonus. I scored two thunderstorms yesterday. The first showed around 8 p.m. The second appeared in the morning at 1 a.m. Although as I write that I realize actually it was one yesterday and one today.
![Sun Days](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f8e6edff5f6915501989f00/7e10644a-e5ba-4a76-9b90-ebb6e76b424b/230621+Sun+Day.jpeg)
Sun Days
This will sound weird. But I do believe I’m going to try and work outside more days this summer.
![Mixed Up](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f8e6edff5f6915501989f00/3dd23bb2-dbc0-4a67-ad9c-a4b745ca8777/230619+Mixed+Up.jpeg)
Mixed Up
Memory is a funny thing. I know, for instance, there is only one natural lake in Texas. Somehow, I came to believe that was Inks Lake.
![First World](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f8e6edff5f6915501989f00/a7f886cc-c0b6-44ec-af70-a137d0a9fbd7/230616+First+World.jpg)
First World
Swallows. I have a pair trying to nest on the wall over the entrance to the dog run. Which means, if they’re successful, that when someone comes to my front door, they’d have to navigate a pile of bird dung. Not in the plan.
![Trade Offs](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f8e6edff5f6915501989f00/a59f6d6d-c451-4002-8d1e-13982346d67e/230612+Trade+Offs.jpeg)
Trade Offs
It’s an air-is-out-of-the-balloon day. The grandson is gone, back to his mom and dad, and the emptiness is shrinking in around me. That’s okay, however, it happens every time the kids come then go.
![On the River](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f8e6edff5f6915501989f00/0785baa4-91cd-44e4-a999-b00cd0b336e3/230530+On+the+River.jpeg)
On the River
I thought I had fallen out of love with camping. Bugs, weather, and discomfort having done me in. But when I stepped out of my tent this past Saturday morning, I realized we were still a couple.
Birdland
Another cool, blessed morning. This time the birds were waiting for me to bring out the feeder. A little Carolina Chickadee and a Titmouse were in the trees.
![Memories](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f8e6edff5f6915501989f00/bdd51fed-64ae-4745-906f-d320d8c740c7/230525+Memories.jpeg)
Memories
It’s nice to know we’re heading into June with 60 degree mornings. I’d like to send an official thank you to New Mexico and everyone to the northwest for sharing their cool air with us. Keep up the good work…
![Tradition](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f8e6edff5f6915501989f00/68478a95-071d-4d25-9014-dfb33b718337/230523+Tradition.jpeg)
Tradition
We got an inch of rain last night, my hand is healing nicely, and I’m back in the wordy saddle. It feels as though I got a good night’s sleep. Lots of dreams. I mean seriously, lots of them and really detailed, too, but none worth repeating.